You can take an Esan man out of Esanland, but you can't take Esan out of an Esan man, - By Williams Patrick Praise
Abstract
This essay provides a comprehensive socio-historical analysis of the Esan people of Edo State, Nigeria, focusing on the cultural mechanisms that allow their identity to persist despite geographical displacement. Grounded in the proverb, "You can take an Esan man out of Esanland, but you can't take Esan out of an Esan man," -WPPraise. T he work explores the foundations of Esan identity—from its 15th-century origins as a movement of political defiance against the Benin Empire to its modern manifestation in the global diaspora.
The study identifies four critical pillars of cultural "portability": the linguistic framework of proverbs and oratory; the sociopolitical structure of the Egbe (lineage) and Enijie (kingship); the culinary rituals that anchor the physical body to the soil; and the moral code of integrity (Ebe) that governs professional and personal conduct. By examining the roles of the Esan woman as a cultural custodian and the digital "Esan Renaissance," the essay argues that Esan identity is not a static location but a resilient psychological state. It concludes that the Esan man’s ability to adapt without assimilating entirely is a testament to a culture designed for motion, ensuring that "home" is a reality carried within the individual.
The Indelible Spirit: Resilience and Identity of the Esan Diaspora
The proverb, "You can take an Esan man out of Esanland, but you can't take Esan out of an Esan man," is more than a cliché of ethnic pride; it is a profound sociological observation. It speaks to the "portable heritage" of the Esan people, a subgroup of the Edo-speaking people of Nigeria. To understand the depth of this statement, one must examine the historical, linguistic, and social foundations that make the Esan identity so resilient that it survives the pressures of migration, globalisation, and time.
Introduction
The
Historical Crucible: Defiance as a Foundation
You
can take an Esan man out of Esanland, but you can't take Esan out of
an Esan man - WPPraise serves as more than a cliché of ethnic pride;
it is a sociological observation of one of Nigeria’s most
culturally resilient subgroups. The Esan people, residing
primarily in the central part of Edo State, possess a cultural DNA
forged through a history of migration, defiance, and a sophisticated
social structure. Whether in the bustling streets of Lagos, the
academic halls of London, or the tech hubs of Texas, the Esan man
carries with him an invisible architecture of language, values, and
ancestral protocols that refuse to be diluted by geography.
The
very name "Esan" is rooted in an act of independence.
Traditionally derived from the phrase Esan fua (meaning
"those who fled"), the Esan identity was forged during the
15th century. According to historical accounts, many founders of Esan
communities left the ancient Benin Empire during the reign of Oba
Ewuare the Great to escape his increasingly stringent laws.
This
"fleeing" was not an act of cowardice, but one of
self-assertion. By moving into the lush, central forests of what is
now Edo State, these migrants established a decentralised yet highly
organised system of Enijie (Kings). This history of
choosing autonomy over subjugation is baked into the Esan psyche. It
explains why an Esan man, no matter where he lives in the world,
maintains an inherent sense of sovereignty and pride. He carries the
history of a people who defined themselves by their ability to thrive
outside the shadow of a great empire.
2. Historical Foundations of Esan Identity
Language
as a Psychological Home
For
the Esan man, the language is the primary vessel of his culture. Even
for those in the diaspora who may not be fully fluent, the rhythmic
cadence of Esan speech—its proverbs (Ibe) and its specific
metaphors—serves as a mental map.
Oratory Skills: Esan
culture places a high premium on the ability to speak with wisdom. An
Esan man is taught that "words are like a bag; you only carry
what you put in them." This emphasis on thoughtful communication
remains a hallmark of Esan professionals globally.
The
"Secret Handshake": In a foreign land, the sound of
the Esan dialect acts as an instant bridge. It collapses the distance
between strangers, creating an immediate bond of brotherhood based on
shared origins.
The Concept of Egbe (Lineage
and Family)
The Esan social structure is built on
the Egbe—the extended family or lineage. In Esanland, an
individual is not just a person; they are a representative of their
ancestors and their living kin.
Responsibility: An
Esan man in London or New York often feels a heavy but proud sense of
duty toward his "home" family. This is why the diaspora is
a major driver of development in towns like Uromi, Ekpoma, and Irrua.
Ewohimi, etc etc
Respect for Elders: The
hierarchy of age is strictly maintained. Even a wealthy Esan
businessman will bow to an older relative who may possess far less
material wealth, acknowledging that age carries a spiritual authority
that transcends money.
3.
Cultural Preservation in the Diaspora
The Esan man
remains "Esan" because he recreates his homeland wherever
he goes. This is achieved through several key
mechanisms:
Development Unions and
Associations
Wherever a cluster of Esan people exists,
they form an "Esan Progress Union" or a town-specific
meeting (e.g., Ewatto Sons and Daughters). These meetings are
not just social clubs; they are shadow governments. They adjudicate
disputes using traditional logic, raise funds for scholarships back
home, and ensure that the "Esan way" is passed down to the
next generation.
Traditional Rites and
Marriage
Perhaps the most significant evidence of this
proverb is found in marriage. Most Esan men, regardless of their
level of Westernisation, insist on performing
the Ivun-Ose (traditional marriage rites). They will travel
back to their father’s compound to pay the bride price and seek
ancestral blessings. This acknowledges that a union is not just a
legal contract between two individuals, but a spiritual merger of two
lineages.
4. The "Esan
Pride": Integrity and Hard Work
There is a
specific brand of Esan resilience often characterised by a distaste
for dishonour. The Esan man is raised with the philosophy that he
must work hard to avoid Ebe (shame). This drive for
excellence is visible in the high number of Esan people in academia,
medicine, and law. The "Esan" within him tells him that he
is an ambassador of his soil, and his success is a victory for his
entire community.
5. A Portable Homeland
The Esan identity is not a
garment that can be taken off; it is the skin itself. It is a
"portable homeland" comprised of values, linguistic
rhythms, and a deep-seated respect for one’s roots. While the "Esan
man" may adapt to new technologies, languages, and climates, the
core of his being remains anchored in the red dust of the Edo
plateau. As long as he remembers the stories of his ancestors and
maintains the bond with his Egbe, he remains fundamentally
Esan.
6. The Wisdom of the Soil: Esan Proverbs
and Philosophical Anchors
To truly understand why the
"Esan" remains within the man, one must examine the
linguistic framework of his thoughts. Esan culture is oral-centric;
wisdom is not stored in libraries but in the agility of the tongue.
The use of Ibe (proverbs) is the ultimate mark of an elder
or a person of substance. These proverbs serve as a psychological
"operating system" that governs an Esan man’s behaviour
in the diaspora.
The Philosophy of Self-Reliance and
Resilience
1. “miomon mhon khon, bh’
ogh’ ode." (A child does not fear the path he
knows.) This proverb encapsulates the confidence of the Esan
man. No matter where he finds himself in the global North or South,
he carries a sense of familiarity with struggle and triumph. This
mental fortitude is what allows him to navigate foreign corporate
boardrooms with the same grit his ancestors used to navigate the
thick forests of central Edo.
2. “Okpa ki u’
ukpe, o bhẹ mọn bhẹ." (The cock does not crow and
then feel ashamed.) This speaks to the Esan trait of standing by
one's word. Integrity (Ebe) is a currency. In the diaspora, an Esan
man is often recognised by a certain "stubborn" adherence
to his principles. If he gives his word, he views its fulfilment as a
matter of ancestral honour.
Communal
Responsibility and Rootedness
3. “Ọmọn
ki i sẹ uwa, ọ ki sẹ agbon." (A child who does
not reach home, has not reached the world.) This is perhaps the
most literal explanation of the essay's topic. It implies that no
matter how much "the world" (success, travel, fame) a man
attains, his journey is considered incomplete and his identity
fractured until he reconnects with his "home" (roots). This
is why the Esan man in the diaspora is obsessed with building a house
in his village, often before he buys property in his city of
residence.
7. The Palate of Home:
Culinary Identity as a Cultural Anchor
The physical
body of the Esan man is a temple to his heritage, maintained through
the rituals of the kitchen. Gastronomy is one of the most resilient
aspects of culture; it is often the last thing a migrant loses.
1)
Omoebe (Black Soup): For the Esan man, Black Soup is not just
food; it is a medicinal and cultural tonic. Made from a blend of
herbs like bitter leaf and scent leaf, it represents the biodiversity
of the Esan forest. In the diaspora, the lengths to which an Esan
person will go to source authentic ingredients—often having dried
herbs shipped across oceans—is a testament to the fact that his
"Esanness" is maintained at a cellular level.
2)
Pounded Yam (Akpu): The cultivation of yams is central to the
Esan calendar and identity. The New Yam Festival is a time
of spiritual reckoning. An Esan man eating pounded yam in a suburb of
Maryland is not just consuming carbohydrates; he is participating in
a centuries-old communion with the god of the harvest.
8. The Enijie System: The Internal
Monarchy
Even in democratic or meritocratic Western
societies, the Esan man carries a "monarchical" social
consciousness. The Enijie (Kings) of Esanland—such as the
Ojuromi of Uromi or the Onogie of Ekpoma—are viewed as the
custodians of the people's collective soul.
The Esan man’s
respect for the Onogie remains intact regardless of
distance. This is because the Enijie represent the
historical defiance mentioned earlier. They are the symbols of the
families that "fled" from Benin to create a new world. When
an Esan man abroad hears of a development in his kingdom, he responds
with a sense of "subject-hood" that transcends modern
citizenship. He understands that while he may be a citizen of Canada,
he is a son of Esanland. This filial bond is what prevents
the "Esan" from being taken out of him; you can change a
man’s passport, but you cannot change his father.
9. Social Cohesion: The "Esan Meeting"
Phenomenon
The
"Meeting" is the laboratory where Esan culture is
synthesised and preserved in foreign lands. These gatherings (often
held on the first Sunday of the month) serve several critical
functions:
1) Linguistic Preservation: It
is the one place where the language is spoken purely, allowing the
ears of the younger generation to remain "tuned" to the
frequency of home.
2) Conflict
Resolution: Esan people
prefer to settle disputes "within the house." The elders in
the meeting apply traditional logic to modern problems, ensuring that
the Esan sense of justice remains active.
3)
Welfare (Ukhu): The
meeting acts as a communal insurance policy. If an Esan man falls on
hard times abroad, his "brothers" are his first and last
line of defence.
This safety net reinforces the idea that he is part of a collective,
not an isolated individual.
The Unconquerable
Soul
Ultimately, the
Esan man is a product of a culture that was designed to survive
displacement. Born from a migration, the culture was never dependent
on being in one specific spot; it was designed to be carried in the
heart, the tongue, and the stomach.
Globalisation may
dress the Esan man in a tuxedo, teach him to speak with a British
accent, and place him in a skyscraper in Tokyo, but when he
encounters a fellow traveller, when he faces a crisis of integrity,
or when he smells the aroma of Omoebe, the "Man of the
Forest" (the literal meaning of E-san) emerges. He is a
testament to the fact that culture is not just where you live, but
who you are.
10. The Esan Woman: The Silent
Architect of Cultural Continuity
To
speak of the "Esan man" in this context is to use the
masculine as a universal representative of the people, but the
practical reality of the proverb—the reason the "Esan"
cannot be removed—is largely due to the role of the Esan
Woman. If the man represents the outward identity and the political
structure, the woman is the custodian of the interior life, the
language, and the values that define the home.
The
Mother as the First Teacher
In
the diaspora, the transmission of culture often falls on the
shoulders of mothers. While the father may be the figurehead of
the Egbe (lineage), it is the mother who whispers the first
Esan words into a child's ear in a nursery in London or a bedroom in
Houston.
1) Linguistic Survival: The
survival of the Esan dialect in foreign lands is a feat of domestic
persistence. By insisting on speaking Esan within the home—or at
least "Esan-English" (a hybrid of English and Esan
syntax)—the Esan woman ensures that the child’s cognitive
development is permanently tinted with the logic of her
ancestors.
2) The Moral Compass: Esan
women are historically known for their industry and "iron will."
They instil in their children the concept of Ikhu (shame/taboo)
and Uromon (blessing). An Esan child abroad is often more
afraid of "disgracing the mother" than of any legal
repercussion, because the mother represents the link to the
soil.
Custodians of the "Portable
Kitchen"
As
previously mentioned, the palate is a primary anchor of identity. The
Esan woman is the engineer of this anchor. The preparation
of Omoebe (Black Soup) or Omi-Ugbadogbo is a
ritual of precision. In the diaspora, she becomes an expert in
"cultural substitution"—knowing exactly which local
spinach or herb in a European market can mimic the flavour of the Edo
forests. This culinary consistency ensures that the Esan man’s body
remains "Esan," even if his surroundings are entirely
foreign.
11. The Role of
Music and Folklore (Ijeleghe and Asologun)
The
"Esan" within the man is also a rhythmic one. The Esan
people are famous for their unique musical forms and acrobatic
dances, such as the Ijeleghe and the
world-renowned Igbabonelimhin.
1) The
Masquerade of the Mind: The Igbabonelimhin is
more than just entertainment; it is a spiritual manifestation of the
Esan spirit—resilient, agile, and seemingly gravity-defying. Even
in the diaspora, videos of these masquerades are shared in WhatsApp
groups and at annual conventions. This visual and auditory connection
keeps the "Esan" alive. The music acts as a psychological
trigger; when an Esan man hears the beat of the Asologun (thumb
piano), he is instantly transported back to the village square,
regardless of his physical location.
12. Modernity and the Digital Esanland
In
the 21st century, the "Esan man" has moved into the digital
frontier. The proverb has taken on a new meaning in the age of the
internet.
1) Virtual Communities: Social
media has allowed for a "Global Esanland." There are now
platforms dedicated to teaching the Esan language to children in the
diaspora via Zoom. These digital spaces act as a surrogate for the
village square, ensuring that even those who have never set foot in
Edo State can still "have the Esan in them."
2)
Genealogical Research: There
is a growing trend of Esan professionals using DNA testing and
digital archives to trace their specific lineages back to clans in
Irrua, Ewohimi, Uromi,
or Igueben etc. This
suggests that the "Esan" in the man is not just a passive
trait, but an active pursuit.
13. Conclusion: An
Unbreakable Cord
The
assertion that "you can't take Esan out of an Esan man" is
a testament to the sophistication of the Esan social and
psychological design. It is a culture built on the foundation
of migration as a form of strength. Because the culture was born
out of leaving (the flight from Benin), it was never fragile. It was
designed to be carried, to be adapted, and to be defended.
The
Esan man carries a tripartite identity:
1) The
Ancestral: His connection to the Egbe and
the Enijie.
2) The Ethical: His
adherence to the codes of Ibe (wisdom) and integrity.
3)
The Physical: His connection to the music, the
language, and the flavours of the soil.
As
long as these three pillars exist, the Esan man remains a citizen of
Esanland, regardless of what his passport says. He is a living bridge
between the ancient red dust of the Edo plateau and the gleaming
glass of the modern world.
14. Names as Destiny:
The Linguistic Architecture of Identity
One
of the most profound ways the "Esan" is kept inside the man
is through the naming system. In Esan culture, a name is not merely a
label; it is a narrative, a prayer, and a permanent link to the
circumstances of one’s birth or the aspirations of the lineage.
Even when an Esan man adopts a Western name for professional ease,
his "home name" remains his true spiritual and social
identity.
Categories of Esan Names and Their
Meanings
The
portability of Esan identity is reinforced by names that act as daily
reminders of the wearer's origins. We can categorise these into
several themes:
Category |
Example Name |
Meaning |
Significance |
Aspiration/Wealth |
Efosa |
God’s wealth |
Reminds the man that his prosperity is divinely ordained and should be used for communal good. |
Resilience/Survival |
Ehizojie |
The spirit chooses the King |
Reinforces the idea that leadership and success are a matter of destiny, not just effort. |
Home/Rootedness |
Oseghale |
God has selected |
Often given to children born after struggles, marking them as chosen survivors. |
Gratitude |
Obehi |
The hand of God |
A constant acknowledgement of a higher power, fostering humility despite success. |
The
"Name-Calling" Ritual
When
an Esan man meets an elder from his village, the first question is
rarely "What do you do for a living?" but rather "Bho
r'enlin mhin?" (What is your name?) and "Ebho we?"
(Which village/quarter are you from?). Once the name is provided, the
elder can often trace the man’s lineage back several generations.
This immediate mapping of the individual into a collective history
makes it impossible for the man to truly "leave" Esan. He
is tethered to a specific plot of land and a specific set of
ancestors by the very words used to address him.
15. The "Esan Man" in the Global Professional
Sphere
The resilience of the Esan identity is perhaps
most visible in how it translates into professional success in the
diaspora. The cultural traits discussed—integrity, the distaste for
shame, and the drive for autonomy—manifest as a specific "Esan
work ethic."
1) Academic Excellence: Many
Esan families view education as the modern equivalent of the "flight
for independence." To be a professor, a doctor, or an engineer
is to bring honour to the Egbe.
Entrepreneurship: The
historical defiance of the Enijie (Kings) who refused to
stay under the thumb of an empire often manifests today as a fierce
spirit of entrepreneurship. An Esan man is frequently found leading
his own firm or striving for executive positions where he can
exercise his inherent sense of sovereignty.
16. The
Future: Will the "Esan" Ever Be Taken Out?
As
we look toward future generations—the third and fourth generation
of Esan people in the diaspora—the question arises: Can the
Esan be taken out of their children?
While the language
may fade in its purest form, the sociological values tend
to persist. The "Esan-ness" evolves from a linguistic
identity into a psychological one. A young man born in Berlin to Esan
parents might not speak the dialect fluently, but he will likely
still possess that "Esan pride," the respect for his
parents' elders, and the drive to "build back home." This
is the "Esan 2.0"—a version of the culture that is
digital, global, yet fundamentally rooted in the 15th-century spirit
of independence.
Final Synthesis
The
proverb "You can take an Esan man out of Esanland, but you can't
take Esan out of an Esan man". – WPPraise, is a victory of
culture over geography. It suggests that identity is not a place you
inhabit, but a story you tell yourself and a set of values you
manifest.
Through the Enijie system,
the Ibe (proverbs), the Omoebe (Black Soup), and
the tireless work of the Esan Woman, the culture has created a
"failsafe" mechanism. It is a culture that was born in
motion, and therefore, it is a culture that can never be lost, no
matter how far the Esan man wanders from the red dust of his
home.
Applications
To conclude this
exploration, we must examine the specific "mental software"
that an Esan man carries. These proverbs are not just sayings; they
are the ethical guidelines that ensure the "Esan" remains
within the man regardless of his coordinates.
Esan Proverb |
Literal Translation |
Philosophical Application/Deep Meaning |
"Ọmọn ki í rẹ uwa, ọ ki rẹ agbọn." |
A child who does not reach home, has not reached the world. |
The Law of Rootedness: No matter how globalized one becomes, true success is measured by one's standing and contribution to their ancestral home. |
"A kẹ i mọn agbọn, a i mọn ọre." |
If you don't know the world, you won't know its depth. |
The Law of Experience: Encourages the Esan man to travel and learn, but warns that wisdom is the only true currency. |
"Ọmọn nọ ha i bhẹ, ọ ki i mọn ẹbe." |
A child who is not ashamed will never find honor. |
The Law of Integrity (Ebe): Fear of bringing shame to the family is the primary deterrent against criminal or dishonourable behaviour. |
"Ai rẹ ukhun mhon ẹlin." |
One does not use a spear to kill a fly. |
The Law of Proportion: Teaches the Esan man to be measured in his response to conflict and to use wisdom over brute force. |
"Ukhu nọ rẹ bhẹ, ọ rẹ bhẹ." |
The inheritance that is yours, will find you. |
The Law of Destiny: Fosters a sense of patience and contentment, reducing the "desperation" that leads to unethical gains. |
17.
The Visual Identity: Symbolic Markings and Regalia
The
internal identity is often reflected in external symbols. For the
Esan man, these symbols are not merely decorative; they are "identity
markers" that survive in the modern world through art, fashion,
and ceremony.
1) The Red Beads (Ivie): These
are not just jewellery; they are symbols of status, lineage, and a
connection to the royal houses of Esanland. An Esan man wearing his
beads at a wedding in Toronto is declaring his place in a hierarchy
that predates the modern state of Nigeria.
2)
The Igbulu Cloth: The
traditional hand-woven fabric of the Esan people. Wearing this at
significant life events serves as a "tactile" reminder of
the soil. The texture of the cloth against the skin is a physical
manifestation of the proverb.
18. Final
Reflection: The Indestructible Esan
The
resilience of the Esan identity is ultimately a story of successful
cultural adaptation. The Esan man does not survive by being rigid; he
survives by being like the Iroko tree—deeply rooted but capable of
weathering any storm.
We see this in:
1)
The Professional: Who
uses Esan grit to dominate in fields of medicine and engineering.
2)
The Father: Who
insists his children know their "village name" and their
father's compound.
3) The Elder: Who,
even in a nursing home in London, still craves the taste
of Omoebe and the sound of his mother tongue.
The
proverb "You can take an Esan man out of Esanland, but you can't
take Esan out of an Esan man" is a biological and sociological
truth. It is the victory of the "portable homeland." As
long as the heart beats with the values of integrity, communal
loyalty, and ancestral respect, Esanland is wherever the Esan man
stands.
19. A Gift of Heritage: Esan Names for the Next
Generation
Here is a list of names that represent the
"Esan" that stays within the man:
Omon-on-o-ose: "A
child is beautiful" (Emphasizing family over material
wealth).
Itua: "A gathering of people"
(Emphasizing the strength of the community).
Ehichoya: "The
spirit is greater than suffering" (A name of
resilience).
Osezua: "God provides
wealth" (A reminder of the source of success).
Dedication
& Acknowledgments
Dedication
This work
is dedicated to the Enijie of Esanland—the custodians of
our ancient stools—and to every Esan son and daughter in the
diaspora who, despite the pull of foreign tides, remains anchored to
the red dust of the Edo plateau. It is for the ancestors who "fled"
not out of fear, but to plant the seeds of a resilient
Civilization.
Acknowledgments
I wish to
express profound gratitude to the elders whose oral testimonies have
kept our history breathing. Special thanks to the late Dr.
Christopher G. Okojie, whose pioneering documentation of Esan native
laws and customs provided the intellectual compass for this study.
Recognition is also due to the various Esan Progress
Unions worldwide; your commitment to communal welfare proves
that the Egbe (lineage) is a bond that no ocean can sever.
Finally, I acknowledge the Esan mothers—the silent architects—who
ensure that the first melody a child hears is the rhythmic wisdom of
the Esan tongue.
In the Esan tradition, it is said
that “Ọmọn ki í rẹ uwa, ọ ki rẹ agbọn” (A
child who does not reach home, has not reached the world).
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